I reserve the right to hang on to the nuclear option for all problems real or imagined 
ATF was never on the block, the big candy kush is the offender and will be punished as such 
And glad to hear the home life is settling down. Deportation is not a fun thing to deal with I know people it’s happened to. Did you get her a ring yet? If not go for it, married life isn’t always as bad as they say it is