Howdy Strangers

Well folks, life got in the way of my life so I’ve taken some time off from a lot of stuff. I think I previously posted somewhere in July of 24 we went to the lake and I caught a staph-infection. Five docs, 12 prescriptions and 6 months later before I could do anything which resembled normal activities.

Five or six years ago my kids gave me 23and me for fathers day. As I value my privacy, it sat until I was trapped in the house with Staph. I decided to send it in just to find out potential health risk for the kids. (I’m adopted so no family medical history.) Turns out we’re fairly healthy people.

But the kicker is the big bold typed words at the top of the page.

THIS IS YOUR SISTER…
THIS IS YOUR MOTHER…
:astonished_face: :astonished_face: :astonished_face: :astonished_face: :astonished_face:

I found my bio-family. I’m the oldest of four, two sisters and a brother. My mom is 77 and still with us. We talk fairly regular and in two weeks I’ll meet all my siblings and a bunch of nieces and nephews. They’ve always known I was out here but had know way to find me. They’ve put there DNA out there for personal reasons, with find me as a hopeful bonus.

I’ve cried like a baby multiple times, I’m even get’n a bit choked right now. The flood of emotions is overwhelming. Relief, excitement, nervous, and a whole lot more, all at the same time, wave after wave.

Finally people who look like me. Understanding where characteristics, features and tendencies come from. The similarities go way beyond looks.

Anyway, I haven’t forgotten about y’all, I’ve just had some major distractions.

I haven’t grown anymore, in part because I’m still stocked pretty well from the last grow, but mostly because I’ve been too busy.

Thanks guys for letting me share, I’m gonna try to be around a bit more, need to get some Grand Daddy purple started one of these days.

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Well I’ve never met you on here but that doesn’t matter to me, I’m sorry to read about medical problems, but I am happy to hear you found your biological family and are making arrangements to meet up, CONGRATULATIONS :tada::tada::tada::clap:.

I’m very excited for you again congratulations

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That is awesome brother. Good to hear things improving and positive relationships being reconnected. Look forward to interacting with you my friend.

Edit: is “howdy” any indicator of where you’re at? It is for me.

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Yeah, I reckon it is. :rofl:

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Welcome back Grow Bro and stoked to hear you’re up and on the mend :love_you_gesture:

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Hi there! I joined last May so we haven’t interacted, but I wanted to say that we are dealing with something similar. My wife didn’t know who her father was. Let’s just say her mother was socially active back in the late 60s and early 70s. I bought her a dna test - not 23andme, but another brand. She has been on a mission to discover who her dad is/was, and discovered numerous family members she didn’t know existed. It’s been an emotional roller coaster for her as well. Welcome back and looking forward to seeing your grow projects in the future.

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@1LuckyMF , good to see you back around. Life is full of curve balls sometimes, hit that shit head on and push on. Hope everything smooths out for you, plant some seeds, best nerve tonic out there!

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Thanks man… yeah that was kind’a terrifying!

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The eldest sister said “ancestry” had a much bigger data base so I just submitted that one a couple of days ago. Yep. mom’s quite the piece of work, lots of drama even with the kids she kept. She either isn’t telling or doesn’t know who my dad is. I wouldn’t mind finding him too.

My wife teases me and says after he got my mom prego, he donated to a sperm bank and now I have 27 brothers and 19 sisters. :rofl:

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@1LuckyMF Hot dang it’s good to hear from you my friend!!! That’s awesome news about the DNA test and finding the bio family but not so great hearing about the staph infection and the heartache that goes along with that. Happy growing Growmie and I’m not talking about planties :oncoming_fist::wink::grin::love_you_gesture::folded_hands::folded_hands:

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Thanks my friend. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hoping meeting your bloods is all the positive things you dream it will be! :sign_of_the_horns::sign_of_the_horns:

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Amazing stuff @1LuckyMF !!! My wife found her dad on ancestry and what an incredible thing. Congrats on the new found family growmie!!!

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Happy 420 everybody!

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Happy 420 budro!!!

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Happy 420 and Easter :rabbit::rabbit::hatching_chick::hatching_chick:

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Let me tell you a story.

I contacted my sister on my moms side and through her met the rest of the family on moms side. In a couple of months, for unrelated reasons, all 3 of my siblings with mom were going to be in the same state. I went and met them, it went fantastic!!! Wife and I drove from (A place I can’t say) to the upper peninsula of Michigan then all the way down to Navarre Florida. Took 3 weeks, changed my life!

While on that trip, the results came in from Ancestry DNA test. (The same sister suggested I use Ancestry due to it’s larger database) I found my dad, two brothers and two nephews.

My mom is still alive and in Florida and Dad is still alive and in Texas. I have spoken with both of them and it has been strangely very easy to talk to both. I hope to meet mom at the end of the month and dad is trying to coordinate with the rest of the family and set a date for me to meet them.

Pretty Crazy stuff… mind boggling.

So now you know where I’ve been the last month. :grin:

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And Michigan was frikken awesome! We took our time and came down the east coast of Lake Michigan, we stopped at several lighthouses, walked barefoot on the beaches, watched bunches of sunsets and sunrises. Fed our souls a much needed feast.

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I can feel your joy and excitement vicariously. Great story and I am glad for your ability to find answers to your life. :green_heart:

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Come on back sometime, I live over on the other side by Lake Huron, just as beautiful with out the people so concentrated, I over on Lake Michigan in the gated community Bay Harbor in Petoskey.

Congrats on finding your family…

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