Is this a male or female
The pistils (white hairs) means it is a female. It’s a little hard to tell from the picture if those are male pollen sacs. My guess is that they are calyx (female.) Do you see a pair of hairs protruding from the balls? Female parts if so. Worst case you have a hermie. It’s not a male.
Not a male. See the pistils, that is bud forming
Yeah from what I can tell all have pistols coming out