Are these male parts?
Nope. Just single calyxs that were the first sign she is mature.
Nope, anytime you see a pistil coming out of them, they’re not male.
Congrats you have A GIRL 
The girls have their little girlie hairs come out.
You are the proud parent of a lady.
Negative. Proceed with mission plan. Looking good in the cosmos.
There was another post that had a few pictures one like mine and two of a hermi. I didn’t read the whole thing before I hit the panic button 
Those particular calyxes can get super fat. They can look like they have seeds in them, but they just get really huge like that.