You weren’t being picked on. Please don’t hesitate to speak up. The point Matty is making though is that the issues represented in this journal are easily dealt with by the members here.
I would say (again) that @PremiumBudzBlondie would likely be better off picking ONE person to mentor her through the first grow. Mostly I’ve seen what Matty has; too much love and attention haha. And if I were to suggest someone for coco it would be first @Not2SureYet. (If you haven’t seen his journal you really should)