I full heartedly agree and so do they. We feel like we made each other better versions of ourselves but are no longer necessary for each other. We grew apart but gained a friend anad a wonerful child in place of a failing relationship. We still are business partners and friends snd parents. Thats all though. They were such a huge psrt of my life helping me out of a dru binge, helping m find myself, and showing me what i need in life from a partner. Not to mention a beautiful son.
Yeah ive realized that imma be fine no matter what happens. Ill still be alive. And even if im not then i dont have to worry about it. Lol. Win win the only thing im worried about is my kid. If hes good im happy. Thats not even just saying it. If he is good i know ill be okay. And im going to do everything to give him the best life possible.
He is adorable isnt he! Cameron lynn quincy Ebinger. He is everything i coukd truly ask for.
I full heartedly agree. And for the record i feel like im getting very lucky and getting the best case scenario for the separation. I feel blessed that i could have married and had a baby with such an understanding and compramisable person.
Your new life will begin to reorder itself day by day. Youâre technically on a new adventure. Best wishes and prayers my friend. You sound like you have engaged a wise way to approach it.
Yeah ive been through a messy breakup and im not doing that shizz again. Im 31. Im not old but im too old to be hating and despising people. I aint really got any friends just people i associate with. Like nobody actually to come chill and kick it. So its kinds like i gotta just raw dog it through life atm. The beginning of a new adventure is always rough and slow but thats the fun part imo. I like grindy games so why not turn life into one ya know? If it helps it helps
Just because life turned the page, doesnât mean youâve finished the book! Hopefully each turned page gets better for you. Hope this book has a happy ending Brother!
Me too man. All ive ever wanted was to grow what i need in life and find someone who loves me as much as my children. Only have one for now but id like more. It seems like loyalty, honesty, and trust are the hardest things to come by in a person now adays.
But i believe it will only get better from here. Ive already had the worst dsy of my life. Has to get better from here right?
The outside fanily. Oreoz garlic 13 is taking off like crazy. Bubba kush#4 has successfully revegged. The two black cherry gushers are doing. Nice. Should be exploding soon. Still need to freaking transplant. Just no time ever to do anything between having the kiddo alone and needing a helping hand.
Pretty proud of my first outdoor grow so far. Dont mind my lack of clothes. Just short shorts. Too hot for this shizz to wear anything else. Lol. Up to my waist for the oreoz garlic 13(with the testaments holding it in place of course)
I think shes pretty happy. Not sure when im going to have time to transplant her but she needs it soon enough. Working on the back yard today with my cousin so it doesnt look like vietnam. But hopefully in the next few days i can.
Got the ex to come over yesterday to help prep the big tent for the next cycle. Transplanting is finally going to happen. Only like 2 weeks overdue. But at least its getting done. Thankfully theyre coming back over today to help watch the kiddo and lend a hand so we can get things done. Still friends and still business partners in this endeavor. Even if i do have suspicions that they may be embezzling the bud theyre teimming. Hard to believe 40gs trimmed down turns into 22gs. They said they found seeds but i saw no signs of hermaphroditing and havent found any seeds in any ive smoked. But it is what it is. If i dont want their help anymore im apparently suppose to pay them out for their work and the equipment even though they havent contributed finances since 2021. But because i said its our money apparently means i have to pay them out for the equipment. Idk any thoughts? Anxiety is high. Only got an hour of sleep. Uhg.
It will be uncomfortable I imagine but I would not be engaged with them beyond the kids. Once trust is broken everything has a question or doubt buried in it. Often its not buried. I hope the best for you bud. If theres no contract theres no obligation for you to continue the endeavor.
Iâd figure out costs involved, pay them off, move on. Or consider selling gear, get them out and start over. Then if they want something going forward they can pay you for it. Or, Leverage utility costs against them. Maintenance costs, nutrients, time. Unfortunate thing is they will always know what you are doing and there is a potential for them to use it against you in the event things go south.
Sounds like this particular person is using costs as an excuse to keep a hold on the situation. The repercussions of that suck, and so does the anxiety. Unnecessary drama can put a damper on the hobby and keep you looking over your shoulder. Not comfortable at all. Cutting ties in that particular aspect to âlevelâ the field seems like the most reasonable approach. However it sounds like the type that would probably find some other reason to stay involved, but Iâd say itâs a step in the right direction. Hard when things get rough in a relationship/ex or ex friendship when involved in something like this together. Iâve scrapped the hobby before because of this too.
